Your words are powerful!

Brad Stanton —  February 26, 2015 — 2 Comments

inspirational_motivational_quotes_wallpaper-800x600I saw a study that said children are born with a good self-image, but due to all the scoldings and criticisms they get throughout life, their self-image becomes poorer as the years go by. School can be very rough on many children’s self-image because it is almost impossible to do any task 100% correctly and get perfect marks on an assignment. It is easy for parents to tell the children what they do wrong without ever telling them what they do right.

Robert Rosenthal was the chairman of the psychology department at Harvard until he retired and began working at a university in California. He did a famous study in which he showed how powerful self-fulfilling prophecy is. This is also called the Pygmalion effect.

Rosenthal chose 3 teachers at random and told them that since they were outstanding teachers they would be given 90 outstanding students to teach and the goal was to improve the students academically. After time it was found that the students did, in fact improve dramatically. But then he told the teachers that the students were not outstanding at all, they had been chosen randomly. Probably the teachers felt proud about that, after all, they had been chosen because they were outstanding. But then Rosenthal went on to tell the teachers that they were not chosen because they were outstanding, they were chosen randomly also.

The results showed that if you really believe in others, they will perform better. Not only that, if you believe in yourself, you will perform better too.

Tell yourself often that you are outstanding and the prophecy will come true. People often criticize themselves, but this brings about negative results. You wouldn’t say those things to others would you?

Tell your loved ones/subordinates at work they are outstanding and they will become so.

I heard a radio talk show in which the speaker said we should complement our children five times for every time we tell them what they do wrong. Wow, that will keep me busy, but I know it is good advice.

Your words have power, use your words wisely!

In Joel chapter 3 God tells us “Let the weak say ‘I am strong!’” If a weak person calls himself strong often enough he will become strong.

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2 responses to Your words are powerful!

  1. 

    When our children are very young, pre-school, kindergarten, we praise everything they bring us. A two-year-old can hand us a half-chewed baloney sandwich and we’ll beam with smiles and thank-yous. The first-grader brings home a crude drawing, colored in crayons, and we applaud it as if it’s the Mona Lisa, hang it on our fridge.
    Why do we stop? I still applaud every achievement of my children, however minor.
    They may look 32 or 40 years old, but deep within they are still the babies I cradled in my arms. Too big to cradle, but never too big for a father’s unconditional love and praise.
    Thank you, Mom, for this most valuable lesson in my life.
    I wish I’d understood it before we had to say goodbye.

    Seek peace,

    Paz

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