A party changed their lives

10962_569881986357496_9143060_nJack Canfield, the coauthor of the Chicken Soup for the Soul series, writes about a party he went to that built confidence in all of the people that went to it. Everyone was instructed to pretend that it was five years later and they had achieved their goals and dreams in life. They were to spend the whole evening talking about what they accomplished and how it made them feel.

Jack went as a writer of bestselling books. One man went as a movie producer that was the first to work with the Russians on a big movie deal. Another man went as a man who had retired and was able to work as a sculptor. He dressed the part. A lady went as an author of bestselling books, she brought mock up books with her. Another lady brought a magazine she had put the image of her face on which told about her accomplishments. One man went as a rich stockbroker and hired someone to call him every 15 minutes so that he could shout “sell ten thousand shares” or some other similar thing.

20 people had been hired to act as adoring fans and paparazzi. They took photos and shouted to the group as if they were real fans meeting famous people.

The people laughed and talked for several hours, never stepping out of the characters they were playing. It had an incredible effect on them. It built and strengthened their faith in themselves. It made them actually believe they could accomplish their dreams.

As you know, Jack Canfield went on to write/edit books that have sold many millions of copies. All of the people at the party went on to achieve their goals, and to actually achieve more than they had dreamed of that night.

Why not do this for your friends or children? Make a commitment to do it. You don’t have to hire the paparazzi, if you get together with enough friends you can find people to play that part.

Many people who have achieved great things in life say that it is very important to dream about and imagine your goals as if you already achieved them. There is a very powerful psychological message sent throughout your mind when you do this. In fact, Dr. Norman Vincent Peale wrote an entire book about the power of imagining because he found it was so important to achieve goals and dreams.

From The Success Principles by Jack Canfield  chapter 12


  1. Now THAT’S what I call a party! That would be a perfect activity for Speech & Personality Development in Children. 😀

  2. Thank you for providing positive news and stories of true happiness in a world where the news are filled with sad and depressing stories about everything that has gone wrong.

  3. I agree with the comment above. Being positive, dreaming and having goals doesn’t really matter anymore. How far does one get without some money in his pocket? It’s sad, but everything stops right there. The things we can do or get for free not always will take us closer to the goal. There are two very different worlds, and it takes a miracle to get from one into another.

    • Well, I certainly believe in miracles, because I have seen many of them. I have been negative most of my life, just changed to positive a few years ago and it is amazing how my subconscious mind has found all sorts of possibilities that make good things happen.
      Many of the world’s best companies were started during times of recession or depression. HP, IBM and many others, to name a few.
      It is easier to invent new things now than any other time in the history of the world, as the number of patents shows. Not only that, but it is easier to capitalize on other inventions, like ebay, Amazon and facebook to make money. Actually, when things look bleak in the economy, it actually opens up new possibilities.
      I have heard of many many people who lacked money to start a business. They found ways to raise the money. One way is to find people willing to invest in your idea, or to find people willing to donate to a worthy cause. There are countless stories of people starting with nothing and starting big companies or charities.

  4. Positive thinking, even common sense may not be enough these days. How would anyone following the superb advice in ‘The Richest Man in Babylon’ get on these days? No interest and vastly greater taxes, depreciating currency, maniacs at the helm and the old rules being rewritten daily.

    We need new books …

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